couples therapist for adhd and neurodiverse relationships and expat support

INDIVIDUALS , COUPLES

Edu Hardy

Edu is a Humanistic Integrative Therapist with over 16 years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples across international and multicultural contexts.

She holds a Master’s in Humanistic Integrative Psychotherapy and Counselling and has trained in CBT and couple therapy, including with Relate. Her experience spans private practice, international EAP platforms, and work with military communities, expatriates, and professionals in high-pressure environments.

Edu specialises in neurodiversity, neurodiverse and mixed neurotype relationships, and expat support. She works with both individuals and couples, particularly where differences in communication, culture, or neurotype begin to affect connection, helping clients understand what is happening between them and find more workable ways of relating.

She works in English and Spanish and brings personal experience of living across different countries, which informs her understanding of multicultural and expatriate life.

Edu works online with clients across the UK, Europe, and internationally, offering therapy for individuals and couples, including neurodiverse and mixed neurotype relationships.

Professional registration: ISPC

Languages spoken: English, Spanish

Availability: Online

Fees: Individuals - £100 | 50 minutes

Couples - £120 | 50 minutes

Edu’s approach and specialisms 

Edu works in an integrative way, grounded in humanistic and relational therapy.

A humanistic approach focuses on the individual’s lived experience. The work is collaborative and non-judgemental, allowing clients to explore thoughts, emotions, and responses in a way that leads to greater clarity rather than quick solutions.

Her work is also informed by systemic and relational thinking, which means looking at the wider context around a person, including relationships, environment, and culture. This is particularly important in couples work, neurodiversity, and cross-cultural experiences.

Where useful, she brings in CBT and solution-focused work to offer structure and practical strategies, especially when clients are dealing with anxiety, stress, or burnout.

Her work is active and collaborative. She helps clients think about what is happening, not just talk about it, and supports them in developing ways of responding that feel more realistic and sustainable.

Neurodiverse and Mixed Neurotype Couples

Edu works with couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent, including mixed neurotype relationships.

Her background in couple counselling, including her work with Relate, informs how she works with communication difficulties, conflict, and differences in emotional processing.

Neurodiverse and mixed neurotype couples often struggle with differences in communication style, expectations, sensory processing, and regulation. These differences can easily turn into blame or repeated arguments. The work focuses on helping both partners understand these differences more clearly, so that the dynamic becomes easier to make sense of. From there, she supports couples in developing ways of communicating and relating that are actually workable for both people, rather than trying to fit into a standard model that doesn’t apply.

Expat Support

Edu works with expatriates and individuals living between cultures.

Having lived and worked across different countries herself, she understands that relocation is not just practical but psychological. Many clients come to therapy feeling unsettled in ways that are hard to name, particularly where identity, belonging, and relationships begin to shift. This can include isolation, loss of support networks, cultural disorientation, and changes in how people experience themselves within work, partnerships, and family life. For some, it also brings up questions around where “home” is, or a sense of being between places without feeling fully grounded in either.

Edu’s approach creates space to think about these experiences more clearly. The work focuses on understanding what has changed, what feels lost or unfamiliar, and how to establish a sense of continuity and stability within a different environment.

She also supports clients navigating cross-cultural relationships, where differences in expectations, communication, and values can create tension or misunderstanding.

Alongside the reflective work, she helps clients find practical ways of managing the emotional and relational impact of living across cultures, so that day-to-day life feels more manageable and coherent.

Neurodiversity

Edu works with neurodivergent individuals, including ADHD and autistic traits, whether diagnosed or self-identified.

The focus is on understanding how someone’s neurotype affects the way they think, respond, and manage day-to-day life, particularly where this has been misunderstood or negatively framed.

This includes psychoeducation and practical strategies, helping clients make sense of patterns and find ways of managing them that actually fit how they function.

The work supports greater self-awareness, less self-criticism, and a more stable sense of how to navigate everyday challenges.

Qualifications

  • Master’s in Humanistic Integrative Psychotherapy and Counselling – Instituto Galene, Madrid

  • BA in Counselling – Glasgow Caledonian University

  • Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy – University of the West of Scotland

  • Diploma in Couple Counselling – Relate / University of Hull