Psychosexual Therapy at Heathwell
ABOUT PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPY
Psychosexual therapy, sometimes called sex therapy, offers support with sexual difficulties and concerns about desire, pleasure and intimacy. It helps you explore how your body, emotions, experiences and relationships affect your sexual wellbeing, and what might help you feel more comfortable and connected.
People come for different reasons. You may be experiencing a specific difficulty, such as problems with erections, pain during sex or difficulty reaching orgasm. You may have lost interest in sex, feel anxious about intimacy, or find it difficult to talk about what you want. Sometimes a change in your health, a distressing experience or tensions within a relationship have affected a sexual connection that previously felt easier.
For couples, psychosexual therapy offers space to explore differences in desire, understand how sexual difficulties affect each partner, and address feelings of rejection, pressure or frustration. It can help you communicate more openly about sex and find ways to rebuild intimacy that feel comfortable and satisfying for both of you.
You can also attend individually, whether you are single or in a relationship. Your partner does not need to take part for the work to be helpful.
WHEN SEX AND INTIMACY BECOME DIFFICULT
Sexual difficulties can become harder to navigate when worry, disappointment or misunderstandings build around them. Someone who is concerned about maintaining an erection, for example, may begin monitoring their performance rather than enjoying closeness. A partner may interpret avoidance as a loss of attraction, making it harder for either person to speak openly about what is happening.
Differences in desire can also leave one partner feeling rejected and the other feeling pressured. Over time, even affectionate touch may become uncomfortable if it carries an expectation that it should lead to sex.
Therapy offers space to understand these experiences without blame, explore each person’s needs and boundaries, and develop ways of approaching intimacy with less pressure. The aim is to find what feels comfortable, consensual and satisfying for you.
Meet our Psychosexual Therapists
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Trish Riley
PSYCHOSEXUAL & RELATIONSHIP PSYCHOTHERAPIST
Approach: Psychosexual & Relational
Availability: In person & Online
Specialisms: High and low sexual desire, Communication challenges, Erectile difficulties, Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Orgasm problems, Depression, Sex anxiety, Attachment issues, Narcissistic Abuse
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Jacqueline Jones
PSYCHOSEXUAL & RELATIONSHIP. THERAPIST, CLINICAL SEXOLOGIST
Approach: Clinical Sexology, Relationship Therapy, Psychosexual
Availability: Online
Specialisms: Couples in Crisis, Infidelity Repair, Women's Sexual Health and Wellbeing, Psychosexual Therapy, Problematic Pornography
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Charisse Peters
COUPLES & PSYCHOSEXUAL THERAPIST, ADHD COACH
Approach: Integrative, Psychodynamic, Attachment Based
Availability: Online
Specialisms: Communication, Neurodiverse and Mixed Neurotype Relationships, ADHD, LGBTQI+ and Gender Diverse Relationships, Cross-cultural & Interracial Couples
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Rachael Ward
PSYCHOTHERAPIST & COUPLES THERAPIST
Approach: Systemic, Relational, Family Therapy
Availability: Online
Specialisms: Infidelity & Betrayal, Shame, Relationship Repair, Communication, Couples Therapy for Depression, Intimacy, Psychosexual Difficulties,Emotional Disconnection
What can psychosexual therapy help with?
People seek psychosexual therapy for concerns including:
Low desire, changes in desire or differences in desire between partners.
Erectile difficulties.
Early or delayed ejaculation.
Difficulty reaching orgasm.
Pain during sex, vaginismus or fear of penetration.
Sexual anxiety and concerns about performance.
Body image difficulties and sexual confidence.
The impact of sexual trauma or distressing sexual experiences.
Changes in intimacy following illness, treatment, childbirth or menopause.
Difficulties discussing sex, preferences and boundaries.
Loss of sexual connection within a relationship.
You do not need to wait until a difficulty becomes severe. You may want help understanding a change, having a conversation you have been avoiding, or exploring what a fulfilling sexual life means to you.
Psychosexual therapy at Heathwell
We offer psychosexual therapy in person at our clinic in Blackheath Village, within easy reach of Greenwich and Lewisham, and online. Our therapists support individuals and couples with different backgrounds, sexual orientations and relationship experiences.
Each therapist’s profile explains their qualifications, experience and way of working. Once you have found someone you would like to work with, let Heathwell know and we will connect you with them to discuss an initial consultation. If you are unsure who to choose, we can help you find a therapist suited to your concerns and preferences.