Parenting Support
in Blackheath Village & Online
Support through every stage of parenthood
Whether you are a parent or are thinking about becoming one, parenthood can bring new questions, choices and challenges.
You may be looking for support for yourself, with a partner or alongside another parent or caregiver. At Heathwell, our experienced therapists offer specialist parenting support to help you navigate every stage of parenthood, from considering whether to have children through to parenting babies, children, teenagers and young adults.
Parenting support is available in person at our Blackheath clinic, close to Greenwich and Lewisham and easily accessible from across South East and Central London. We also offer online parenting support across the UK and internationally.
What is parenting support and how can therapy help?
Parenting support offers a private space to explore a particular question, difficulty or change in your family life. We support parents and caregivers of children of all ages, as well as people who are considering becoming parents.
You might be:
Considering becoming a parent and wondering whether parenthood is right for you
Finding that parenting brings up difficult feelings or experiences from your own childhood
Adjusting to your child’s diagnosis of autism, ADHD or another developmental difference
Looking for psychoeducation about autism, ADHD and neurodivergence
Learning how to support your child’s communication, sensory and emotional needs
Trying to understand changes in your child’s behaviour at a particular developmental stage
Responding to behaviour that feels confusing, challenging or out of character
Discussing how to parent or co-parent with another parent or caregiver
Navigating differences in parenting styles, expectations or boundaries
Exploring which educational setting or support options may best meet your child’s needs
Raising children abroad or adjusting to family life following an international move
Parenting across different cultures, languages or family traditions
Supporting a child with questions around identity, belonging or being a third culture child
Managing a family transition such as separation, divorce, bereavement or the arrival of a new sibling
Our therapists have experience in child development, attachment, perinatal mental health, neurodivergence and education. They can help you understand your child’s emotional and developmental needs and consider what may be influencing their behaviour.
Therapy can also help you explore your own responses. Parenting may stir feelings linked to your childhood, relationships or experiences of being cared for. Understanding these connections can help you respond with greater awareness.
For expatriate and internationally mobile families, parenting support can also provide space to explore the effects of relocation. This may include changes in your support network, cultural differences in approaches to parenting, concerns about your child’s identity and belonging, or helping them adjust to a new country, language or school.
Parenting support is available for one parent, both parents together or another caregiver involved in the child’s life. You do not need the other parent to attend. Separated parents can seek support individually or together where appropriate.
The focus will depend on what you bring. It may include practical guidance and psychoeducation, support with communication and boundaries, or a deeper exploration of attachment and family patterns. The aim is to help you make informed decisions and find an approach that suits your child and your family.
Does my child need to attend?
Parenting support usually takes place with the parent or caregiver. Your child does not need to attend. This allows you to speak openly about your concerns and consider what you can change in the way you respond, communicate and relate to your child.
Depending on your needs, sessions may involve:
One parent attending alone
Both parents attending together
A parent and another caregiver attending together
Separated parents attending together where this feels appropriate
A parent and child attending together for attachment-focused or dyadic work
If your child needs their own therapy, we can match them with a therapist who works with their age group and particular difficulties. This would usually be separate from your parenting sessions so that the child has their own confidential therapeutic space.
Your therapist will discuss the most suitable arrangement with you before the work begins.
Specialist parenting support
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Pregnancy, birth and becoming a parent can bring significant emotional and practical changes. Alongside anticipation and excitement, you may experience anxiety, uncertainty, loss of confidence or worries about about how life will change.
We support parents and parents-to-be with difficult pregnancy or birth experiences, changes in identity, relationship pressures and the adjustment to caring for a baby. Therapy can also help you explore how your own experiences of childhood and being parented may be shaping your expectations of parenthood.
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General parenting advice does not always reflect the needs of neurodivergent children. An autistic child or a child with ADHD may experience communication, emotions, sensory input, routines and transitions differently.
Our therapists can offer psychoeducation to help you understand your child’s experience and behaviour. They can also support you with emotional regulation, communication, boundaries and the practical changes that may help your child feel more secure.
Support is available whether your child has a diagnosis, is waiting for an assessment or has needs that have not yet been formally recognised.
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Parents and caregivers may have different ideas about boundaries, discipline, routines, education or how to respond when a child is struggling. These differences can lead to tension and make it harder to provide a clear and consistent approach.
Parenting support gives you space to discuss these differences and make decisions with your child’s needs in mind. You can attend with a partner, former partner or another caregiver. You can also attend alone if the other person does not wish to take part.
This support can be particularly valuable during separation, divorce, blended family life or other changes in the family.
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We support people who are considering becoming parents, preparing for a baby or adjusting to parenthood. Therapy can? Therapy can help with anxiety during pregnancy, difficult birth experiences, postnatal depression and the emotional changes that come with becoming a parent.
Parents may also seek support as their child moves through a new developmental stage. The early years, starting school, adolescence and the transition into adulthood can each bring new questions about behaviour, boundaries, independence and connection.
Psychoeducation can help you understand what is happening at each stage and what your child may need from you as they develop.
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School can become a source of worry when a child is struggling emotionally, socially or academically. Parents may feel unsure what help is available or whether their child’s current setting is meeting their needs.
Some of our therapists have extensive experience across education, healthcare and social care. They can help you understand your child’s learning and developmental needs, prepare for conversations with schools and other professionals, and explore suitable support or educational options.
This may be particularly helpful for families navigating autism, ADHD, learning differences, additional needs, school transitions or difficulties within a mainstream setting.
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A child’s emotional and developmental needs change as they grow. Behaviour that is expected at one age may mean something different at another.
Psychoeducation can help you understand what your child may be experiencing at a particular stage. It can also help you decide which expectations, boundaries and responses are appropriate.
We support parents through:
Infancy and the early years
Starting nursery or school
Changes during childhood
Puberty and adolescence
Increasing independence
The transition into adulthood
Parenting support can help you adapt as your child grows while maintaining connection and clear boundaries.
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Parenting can bring unresolved experiences from your own childhood to the surface. You may find yourself reacting in ways you do not fully understand or repeating patterns you had hoped to avoid.
You may also feel determined to give your child a different experience but be unsure what that should look like. Guilt, anger, fear and self-doubt can become difficult to manage.
Parenting can bring unresolved experiences from your own childhood to the surface. You may find yourself reacting in ways you do not fully understand or repeating patterns you had hoped to avoid.
You may also feel determined to give your child a different experience but be unsure what that should look like. Guilt, anger, fear and self-doubt can become difficult to manage.
Therapy gives you space to understand these reactions and where they come from. It can help you make more conscious choices about the relationship you want to build with your child.
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Living abroad can add another layer to parenting. You may be raising your child away from family support, adapting to an unfamiliar school system or trying to maintain connections with more than one country, language or culture.
Parents from different cultural backgrounds may also have different expectations about family roles, education, discipline and independence. Children may experience questions about identity and belonging as they grow up between cultures.
Our therapists support expatriate and internationally mobile parents with the emotional and practical challenges of? "aspects" maybe. They can help families think through cultural differences, relocation, loss of familiar support and the experience of raising children away from home.
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The period during pregnancy and after birth can have a profound effect on emotional wellbeing. Some parents experience depression, anxiety, intrusive thoughts, isolation or difficulty feeling connected to their baby. Others feel overwhelmed by the demands of parenthood or believe they are not coping as well as they should.
Our therapists offer a confidential space to talk honestly about these experiences. Support is available to mothers, fathers, partners and other primary caregivers throughout pregnancy and the early years of parenthood.
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You may feel disconnected from your child, struggle to understand what they need from you or find that the relationship has become dominated by conflict and tension. Family changes, trauma, separation or difficult early experiences can also affect the bond between a parent and child.
Parenting support can help you understand the patterns within your relationship and how your child seeks safety, comfort and connection. The work may can help you respond to their emotional needs and gradually strengthen trust and communication.
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Item dAnger, withdrawal, refusal, aggression, meltdowns or other difficult behaviour may be connected to anxiety, sensory overwhelm, developmental changes or feelings that your child cannot yet express. Understanding what may lie behind the behaviour does not mean ignoring it. It helps you decide how to respond more effectively.
Our therapists can help you recognise triggers, understand patterns and reduce escalation. You can also explore how to support your child in identifying emotions, tolerating frustration and developing ways to manage difficult experiences.
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Receiving a diagnosis for your child can bring many different emotions. You may feel relieved to have an explanation, worried about the future or overwhelmed by new information and decisions. This can happen following any diagnosis, including a physical health condition, disability, developmental difference, learning difficulty, autism or ADHD.
Therapy gives you space to process what the diagnosis means for you and your family. Our therapists can help you think about how to talk to your child, respond to their emotional needs and manage changes in family life. Support can also include understanding recommendations from professionals and considering what practical, therapeutic or educational support may be needed.
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Caring for a child with additional physical, developmental, emotional or learning needs can involve pressures that other families may not fully understand. Parents may need to manage appointments, assessments, education and care alongside the everyday emotional demands of family life.
Our therapists can support you in understanding your child’s individual needs and finding ways to strengthen communication and connection. Sessions can also provide space for your own feelings, including exhaustion, grief, guilt, isolation or anxiety about the future.
Where relevant, support may include communicating with schools and professionals, exploring suitable educational options and helping other family members adjust to your child’s needs.
Where to find us
We offer parenting support in person from our therapy rooms in the heart of Blackheath Village, directly opposite Blackheath station. The clinic is easy to reach from Greenwich, Lewisham and across South East and Central London.
Online parenting support is also available across the UK and Europe, as well as internationally. This can be particularly helpful for busy parents, families living abroad and parents or caregivers who are based in different locations.
Meet our Parenting Support Therapists
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Ricardo da Costa
PSYCHOTHERAPIST
Approach: Psychodynamic
Availability: In person & Online
Specialisms: Attachment, Adolescent Therapy, Parent work, Addictions, Childhood Trauma, Anxiety and Depression
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Sarah Bastianello
PSYCHOTHERAPIST
Approach: Psychodynamic
Availability: In person & Online
Specialisms: Early Attachment, Adolescent Therapy, Relational Difficulties, Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma, Low mood, Childhood trauma, Supporting parents with children who have additional needs.
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Kellie High
ART THERAPIST & PSYCHOTHERAPIST
Approach: Art therapy, Psychodynamic, Psychoanalytical
Availability: In person & Online
Specialisms: Trauma and Emotional Wellbeing, Children’s Mental Health, Learning difficulties, Life transitions
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Emma Nagle
PLAY THERAPIST
Approach: Play therapy
Availability: In person
Specialisms: Neurodivergent Children, Parent and Child Attachment Work, Trauma, Domestic Abuse, Safeguarding, Anxiety, Anger and Emotional Regulation
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Eleanor Wolfe
COUPLES & RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST
Approach: Integrative, Attachment Based
Availability: Online
Specialisms: ADHD, Neurodiversity, and Mixed Neurotype Relationships, Attachment Difficulties, Postpartum and Fertility-Related Difficulties
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Lucia Mieli
CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST & PSYCHOTHERAPIST
Approach: Attachment Based, IFS, Developmental Psychology
Availability: Online
Specialisms: Attachment, Parent work, Perinatal Psychology, Trauma, PTSD and Complex PTSD, Anxiety & Low Mood